Monday, August 27, 2012

Friendship & Accountability


Tonight I met with my two best friends what has been going on and what I had confessed. They were so loving and yet showing me my sin at the same time. They were able to ask me open and honest questions – which I answered with complete truthfulness.

I love these ladies so much because regardless of how much I seem to screw up they still love me and want to walk with me in this.

They shared some very insightful things with me that I can’t over look and completely agree with.
  1. What I describe to them about being sexually starved and how I have responded sounds like I have made passionate sex an idol.
  2. Sounds like I don’t understand or feel the love of God.
  3. I need to end this long distance “relationship”
  4. A struggle isn’t a struggle is I am not turning my back from the sin.
  5. It doesn’t sound like I am repentant. It sounds more like I am trying to be good for goodness sake.
I am not in a place of repentance (yet) but a place or wanting the truth out there. I am not sorry for what has happened but I am sad it has hurt my husband.

I am struggling to even talk to God.  Girlfriend suggested that I just come to Him honest and bare but I am not only ashamed but mad. Why would he allow us to go through all this when we are willing to do anything for him and his church? 

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